Unable to Ejaculate during love play
Hello, I am an 18 year old male who has been dating a girl of the same age for a few weeks now, and we are both already very into each other. We have not had intercourse yet, but we have had "love play" on several occasions now, which usually includes using our hands only.
So far, every time my girlfriend pleasures me, I love it very much. Recently, she performed oral sex on me, and that was equally pleasurable. The only problem is that every time we've done this, I cannot reach climax.
This has been weighing down on me and lowering my self confidence pretty drastically. And now, whenever she reaches down to do anything, I usually shy away from it because I'm worried I won't be able to climax.
This is really taking a toll on me, although she seems to be at least content with the theory that it will get better over time. I sort of am as well, but I'd like to know if there's any rhyme or reason to why I cannot ejaculate. I think it may be because I masturbate too much, and I openly admit to it.
One more thing. After she pleasured me today and I ONCE AGAIN couldn't climax, she left and I felt physically okay. But a few minutes later, my testicles and lower back were on fire with terrible pain, and I could barely walk. I assume this was a bad case of build up of semen, known also as 'blue balls', but it was terribly painful. If anyone can give me any reassurance on that as well, I'd be very grateful.
Thanks for reading, and if you know anything, please let me know.
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