I know the topic sounds strange, but I was just wondering. My height is 5'7" and my weight is about 163, so that is a little pounds over, not so bad. Though I am not very athletic and not very strong either. Will that cause trouble for me?
Also, I measured my penis without pressing all the way down where the base is, but where the fat begins so it looked like it was about 6 inches, maybe a little less. When I press all the way down it was near 6.5 inches, but I don't know if you count that.
The answer is no to both of those questions. However, your anxiety will defeat you; then the answer can become "yes".
When you begin your college studies, your priorities will change. Your life will change. Actually, your life will change as time goes by. There will be such eras. College will mold you. Then beginning your career will mold you again.
I sometimes thing that the norm is that for most people, the goal is just the passing of time. They go to work. They come home. They watch TV, have a beer, go to bed; and start over the next day. Don't let that be your goal.
The answer is no to both of those questions. However, your anxiety will defeat you; then the answer can become "yes".
When you begin your college studies, your priorities will change. Your life will change. Actually, your life will change as time goes by. There will be such eras. College will mold you. Then beginning your career will mold you again.
I sometimes thing that the norm is that for most people, the goal is just the passing of time. They go to work. They come home. They watch TV, have a beer, go to bed; and start over the next day. Don't let that be your goal.
Hmm I get it. Well I also think it would be a good idea to be less self-conscious, I worry about every little thing.
Though I heard that college is more casual sex than relationships. Especially in SUNY schools. I mean if the opportunity came up I think I'd take it depending on how I feel at the moment and who the other person was. But like you said I just don't want to pass time, I want my life to be meaningful, and I want there to be love, something that I don't really have (not just because I never had a gf, but my family is very very cold, never give hugs or show care, my dad was busy with drugs and my mom has mental illness).
I also wanted your advice on something. I found a girl I really like in my school, a cute blond Russian girl that is also smart and everything. However, since I am about to graduate in 2 weeks, IDK if it is worth starting to get to know her and all because I am going away to college. A few people told me to go for it that if she likes me I should wait, but I don't know. What do you think? If it is not her, there are girls in college anyway.
If I were giving advice to myself, I would say "don't start something to which you can't contribute fully." I would have a hard time concentrating on a new endeavor, like college, when I've started something miles away. It is mean to get someone interested and interesting; and then go away to make them wait for me. So many soldiers have done that for decades. Sometimes it works out great. Other times it is disastrous; as you can see in movies and books.
But I'm not you. You may handle these kind of situations better than me.
Well I'm not worried about a girl in general distracting me or anything, because if nothing happened with her I'd find a girl while in college. A few people said it probably would not work but I should at least try so I don't feel regret in the future and wonder if it would work. Though I also hear that in college your interest changes, and the kind of girls you like also changes. So since I'll be living on campus I'd imagine I'd have the ability to be with the girl throughout the day and that could be more tempting.
Will it be hard to have sex?
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