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Originally Posted by mommysunshine
Did you find out what your state allows for vaccination waivers? Nearly all states have waivers which will allow your child to attend school without vaccinations (not sure about daycare). There's got to be a wonderful person who can watch your baby that is independent of the structured daycare. Daycares are germ pits - so many kids get sick over and over again. It was a constant complaint from friends who had their children in daycare.
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We've gone back and forth about my wife staying home or going to daycare. Seems a lot of other countries call it early education and the government helps a lot with the cost, while in the USA it has more of a negative perspective. There's study after study out there that compare the 6 factors when the child ages: Behavior, Vocabulary, Social Skills, Cognitive Development, Health and Intelligence. It appears over and over that a quality daycare that 4 out of the 6 are better than staying at home. The two that are worse as you mention is their health and behavior. I've seen mixed things about the behavior studies and some people I know argue that they have seen kids come to school by kindergarden and they don't know how to act in a classroom environment. Of course the studies compared stay at home children, quality daycare and poor quality daycare. The poor quality daycare the child is worse off in almost every category.
Even in my stat they are starting to see the benefit of early education that they have a program called VPK (voluntary pre-kindergarden) that they will help with the cost. The argument is at what age is the best for a child to start, especially for health.
We saw this chart, which is pretty interesting
Most of my coworkers and friends who take their children to daycare started right away when they were a few weeks old. My wife is going to stay home with our son for 6 months for a few reasons. From the chart above it seems at 6 months their own immune system improves and my wife company won't hold her job for more than 6 months. So 6 months works the best for us.
The chart above came from reasons to breast feed and how the child gets their immune fighting antibodies from breast milk and why you should breastfeed if possible at least a year. World health organization though recommends 2 years.
I'm wondering if the reason the daycares are such a bad place for health is that many people drop their children off a few weeks after birth and if people held their kids longer, say a year that it would be less of a place they are always getting sick? All children with a poor immune system is asking for trouble.
But according to webmd children have separation anxiety the most from 8 months to 14 months. So it appears either 6 months or 2 years might be the best time to start your child at a daycare.