Sorry to be so graphic but I really need some help. Just over a week a go I was convinced to receive anal sex. It was uncomfortable at first and my partner went slow at first and eased me in to it. When he started penetrating I asked him to put a condom on. We were using lots of lube, but not sure of the brand. He then continued to go faster for a while until it became uncomfortable again at which point I said stop. I was a little sore for that day, but nothing I wouldn't have expected from such an encounter. About 4 days later I noticed my anus starting to get sore again after a bowel movement. Since then it has gotten very sore. I felt up there and sure I can feel lumpy kind of things which I am assuming are hemorrhoids. I also the last couple days have been experiencing very noticeable amounts of mucus in my stool. Today my anus is throbbing whether I'm sitting, standing or what. Passing stool hurts a lot. I am scared I may have Proctitis. I have never had hemorrhoids that I knew before.

I really don't want to go to the doctors, I don't like taking pills and would rather mend this on my own if possible. One thing to note is I haven't seen any blood now or during the encounter.

I also was having loose stools previous to the encounter and right before it started hurting really bad.
I would like to know what you guys would do.

Thanks for you help

Well, your encounter could have caused inflammation to hemorrhoids you didn't realized you had..
The rectum lining is very delicate and any trama can cause problems.
Since you don't know the brand, not all lubes are anal safe so that could be some of the cause of irritation.
Have you had a fever?

Also, you mentioned asking your partner to use a condom when he started penetrating. If he actually penetrated before you stopped him, precum was introduced which could be another issue.

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The encounter was last Tuesday. It started getting sore and uncomfortable Saturday morning, but only when I had a bowel movment Sunday it was a bit sore after my bowel movment and a little uncomfortable that day. Monday I had an unsetteled stomach and diarrhea all morning and some of the afternoon. Later that night is when it really started hurting, and Tuesday and today it was real bad. Excruciating when passing stool, and it just plain hurt and throbbed most of the day Tuesday and today was when I noticed the mucus in the stool and felt the lumps up there. Can't really say I had a fever.

So lets say its an infection of some sort, wether it be and STD or just an infection caused by a small tear and fecal matter. What is the best wide spread germ killer that I could take to get rid of it. Something natural I mean, and should I drink it, or enema it, or do both with the same or something different.

You mentioned having a problem with loose stools before the encounter, so you have an intestinal virus you're fighting (?)
I'm thinking you have an anal fissure, which may heal on its own.
Make sure that once your virus goes away that you consume plenty of fiber to keep from getting constipated.. that's the last thing you want to happen.
Drink lots of water.
Soak in warm water (no soap) for 15 mins several times a day, especially after a bowl movement to promote healing & relax the sphincter.
Zinc oxide may relieve some of the discomfort.


If it doesn't get better within a month or two, or if there's bleeding or fever, you should go to the doctor.

Use preparation H, a little internally. It will help to reduce the pain and inflamation.
If there is a fissure it may take a week or more to heal. Sometimes up to a month.
some fissures reopen with repeated assault due to the scar tissue being weak.

If you decide that you have a fissure I would treat with MMS applied locally, maybe with a small bulb enema. The reason fissures have a hard time healing is due to bacteria preventing the healing process. So mms and ozone therapy or treatments with colloidal silver are known to heal fissures as well as fistualas, which conventional medicine has a really hard time with.

There is also a nerve in the rectum that can be irritated or damaged to cause tenesmus... a really painful rectal throbbing that comes and goes. There is no cure for that that I know of. Some proctologists recommend yoga.. for some reason that helps. This conditon has a name but I forgot what its called.

I agree with Cookie, extra fiber and lots of water. A Metamucil type product is an easy way to get some fiber, although not the most natural.

Also you can use unrefined extra virgin coconut oil internally around a tablespoon a day, and externally you also may find it soothing...https://www.natmedtalk.com/wiki/Coconut

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Colloidal silver, in both ends.

Do a little research on it.

Thanks Pinballdoctor, you are right. That was the first and last time I will use it as such.

I have decided it is an infection because of the way it feels and the mucus/puss that it is producing. I know if I go to the doctor, they will prescribe some sort of pills that I really don't want to take.

Do you think this Colloidal silver will do the trick? How frequent do you think the enemas should be with it? How long should I hold them in?

How much should I drink?

Also how much should I put in the enema?

just get a small bulb enema since this is a problem with the rectum and not the whole colon and hold it as long as you can.. If there is anything to treat on the outside soak some gause or cotton and place it and keep it there. Id take one ounce 3 times a day. and do the enema the same.... but lets see what Pinballdoc says.... also start taking lots of vitamin c

If you dont see improvement in a couple of days you should rethink it and try something else.

Ok, any herbs or other supplements I should start taking that may help?

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