My husband and I have been researching different herbs or natural things we could to try to help ease the painful sex I have been experiencing. I have been to two different doctors and say I am perfectly healthy and its all in my head. We have been married for almost 2 years. We have tried dilators, all sorts of lube etc. We bought some Dong quai but did some research and learned hat it could cause a miscarriage. We are trying to become pregnant so are nervous about taking to Dong quai. Any advice? Anything that has worked for you guys?