This condition has come back now, even worse. Liverock, it does appear to be Blepharitis, but I'm trying to get it under control again without going to a doctor. From all I've read on the condition, the doctors are still scratching their heads on what causes it, and what cures it. Looks like it can be many things. I'm not willing to use steroids or antibiotics which they will likely give right away.
Anyway, been washing the eyelids twice a day with Johnson's Baby Shampoo as recommended by some sufferers. Since coconut oil and vitamin E both seem to sting the delicate and irritated/dry skin around the eyes, I've started using some Ghee, can't use too much of anything over the eyes, as it flows into the eye and blurs vision.
I threw out all my old eye makeup, and replaced it with natural makeup from the health store. But, I have not been able to use any makeup with the condition of my eyelids of late.
Funny that I never had a problem like this, and now in my 60s it suddenly crops up.