I know the topic sounds strange, but I was just wondering. My height is 5'7" and my weight is about 163, so that is a little pounds over, not so bad. Though I am not very athletic and not very strong either. Will that cause trouble for me?
Also, I measured my penis without pressing all the way down where the base is, but where the fat begins so it looked like it was about 6 inches, maybe a little less. When I press all the way down it was near 6.5 inches, but I don't know if you count that.
The answer is no to both of those questions. However, your anxiety will defeat you; then the answer can become "yes".
When you begin your college studies, your priorities will change. Your life will change. Actually, your life will change as time goes by. There will be such eras. College will mold you. Then beginning your career will mold you again.
I sometimes thing that the norm is that for most people, the goal is just the passing of time. They go to work. They come home. They watch TV, have a beer, go to bed; and start over the next day. Don't let that be your goal.
The answer is no to both of those questions. However, your anxiety will defeat you; then the answer can become "yes".
When you begin your college studies, your priorities will change. Your life will change. Actually, your life will change as time goes by. There will be such eras. College will mold you. Then beginning your career will mold you again.
I sometimes thing that the norm is that for most people, the goal is just the passing of time. They go to work. They come home. They watch TV, have a beer, go to bed; and start over the next day. Don't let that be your goal.
Hmm I get it. Well I also think it would be a good idea to be less self-conscious, I worry about every little thing.
Though I heard that college is more casual sex than relationships. Especially in SUNY schools. I mean if the opportunity came up I think I'd take it depending on how I feel at the moment and who the other person was. But like you said I just don't want to pass time, I want my life to be meaningful, and I want there to be love, something that I don't really have (not just because I never had a gf, but my family is very very cold, never give hugs or show care, my dad was busy with drugs and my mom has mental illness).
I also wanted your advice on something. I found a girl I really like in my school, a cute blond Russian girl that is also smart and everything. However, since I am about to graduate in 2 weeks, IDK if it is worth starting to get to know her and all because I am going away to college. A few people told me to go for it that if she likes me I should wait, but I don't know. What do you think? If it is not her, there are girls in college anyway.
If I were giving advice to myself, I would say "don't start something to which you can't contribute fully." I would have a hard time concentrating on a new endeavor, like college, when I've started something miles away. It is mean to get someone interested and interesting; and then go away to make them wait for me. So many soldiers have done that for decades. Sometimes it works out great. Other times it is disastrous; as you can see in movies and books.
But I'm not you. You may handle these kind of situations better than me.
Well I'm not worried about a girl in general distracting me or anything, because if nothing happened with her I'd find a girl while in college. A few people said it probably would not work but I should at least try so I don't feel regret in the future and wonder if it would work. Though I also hear that in college your interest changes, and the kind of girls you like also changes. So since I'll be living on campus I'd imagine I'd have the ability to be with the girl throughout the day and that could be more tempting.
Spidey, first you need to ask yourself the following:
What do I want in life/my 4 years of college?
It's best to work on yourself. That's the beauty of college... you get the chance to have numerous experiences and the chance to learn/grow. Women will always be there and there will be plenty of opportunities to have women as long as you're not afraid to put yourself out in the world and live!
If this may seem vague then here's a good first step to take: Start taking care of yourself physically and soon you'll start to develop more confidence in yourself.
Though I heard that college is more casual sex than relationships. Especially in SUNY schools. I mean if the opportunity came up I think I'd take it depending on how I feel at the moment and who the other person was. But like you said I just don't want to pass time, I want my life to be meaningful, and I want there to be love,
Spidey, just some food for thought.... A young man I know...sort of like a son to me... was very sexually active in his teen years and early twenties... if the opportunity came up, he would take it... numerous amount of sexual partners... Sometimes forgetting or in too much of a hurry to think of condoms... contracted herpes.... Got married a few years ago, had to inform the soon to be wife of his problem, and now lives with the fear of giving his wife herpes and if she gets it and they decide to have children, the possibility of his children having it because of him! The one comment he has made that I wish I could share with every person considering sex for the first time.... " I wish I would have waited to have sex until I got married... Because I had sex and got a disease, I have to worry for the rest of my life about how I can cause hurt to the one person I love more then life.... I came into our marriage stained and damaged" It broke my heart to hear him say that, but I understand where he is coming from... Sex is suppose to be a gift, and we pass it around like a two for one sale...like its worthless.
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I know the topic sounds strange, but I was just wondering. My height is 5'7" and my weight is about 163, so that is a little pounds over, not so bad. Though I am not very athletic and not very strong either. Will that cause trouble for me?
You don't necessarily have to be strong or athletic to have sex. Believe it or not, you'll know exactly what to do with your body parts when it happens.
It's instinctive..
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Also, I measured my penis without pressing all the way down where the base is, but where the fat begins so it looked like it was about 6 inches, maybe a little less. When I press all the way down it was near 6.5 inches, but I don't know if you count that.
Either way, anything over 5.5 is good as far as most women are concerned! You're just fine there. My suggestion to you is to buy a box of condoms & practice putting it on correctly until you can do it with ease.
Oh yeah, practice your tarzan yell too
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